dating

According to a survey of almost 5,500 single adults, 21 or older, the do's and don'ts of dating have changed.

I like big guys and I can not lie!

Going on a date?  Be careful what music you play, you don't want to give the wrong impression!

I get asked a lot by my straight guy friends, “Where do you meet these girls that are DTF, when your gay?” A few years back El Paso made it on a list of the top 10 cities to meet single women. According to the list El Paso has 20,000 more women than men. To be honest, I can't help that these girls want me. 1. I'm celebrity 2. I'm super friendly and easy to get along with 3. Have you seen me? I'm C

It's obvious how different men and women are in their thought processes...we don't reach the same conclusions about things, we don't hear the same things, we don't believe the same things. So it's not just about who has boobs and who doesn't. Boobs are awesome, by the way.

So, I just read a blog on our sister station KISS-FM's website that Patty Campos posted about what men are thinking about women. While it's good, it seems to be a little off. Here's the original blog, and these are my humble thoughts on it.

So, I somehow got embroiled in a discussion about sex in long-term relationships. As one person (who shall remain nameless, but it was a chick) said, "After a few years, you kind of start wishing for a one-time hall pass. Hell, I'd settle for a half-pass at this point!" Some other friends have celebrity-passes, in case that thing-that-never-freaking-happens just does.

Ladies, the next time you see a guy at a party, or a bar, or wherever, and you want to get to know him a little bit better. This is the pickup line to use. He'll instantly know you're a cool, fun, open person who isn't there to play games. It could start the most amazing relationship either of you have ever imagined; a completely transcendent, life-changing experience!

Okay, so a short time back, Veronica posted something about how nice guys don't finish last, and blah blah blah..same old thing women always say when nice guys complain about dating. I have a great example of why this happens. Ladies, listen up.

It's time for another "Dear Fernie" this time its all about love advice. Helping you straight guys get laid! If you would like advice you can email me fernie@klaq.com or twitter. Is this 1st email a Manti Te'o type of relationship?

I saw this link on Facebook today, to a New York Times article about the demise of "courtship". The article raises a lot of interesting questions. Do people even try to "date", or just "hang out" by trying to include new girls/guys into their already planned activities...

I will admit right now...I am terrible at meeting women. I'm absolute crap at talking to them. But I can honestly say I've never used any of these horrible pickup lines. Okay, I can honestly say I've never used ALL of these pickup lines.